My first social circle
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lol this is how a lot of AMOG types interact. It’s basically shit-testing the other guy and seeing if he’s going to be a bitch and let it get to him, or if he’s going to laugh and throw it back in their face…then they end up best buds because they have a mutual respect for eachother.
It was really a bunch of mind-fuckery when I first started hanging out with other dudes and seeing this stuff first-hand. And I had the same reactions you probably did where you’re like “wtf?? This is insane, I don’t get what just happened at ALL…I don’t even WANT to get it, this is stupid to me”. But now I can handle myself the way Ted does and I understand a lot of this is just about respecting the other guy and earning his respect.
There was this one Natural dude in my first social circle who would alllways try to tool me and compete with me and challenge me to getting girls against him etc. etc. And I thought he was the biggest fucking asshole for the longest time lol Then one day I realized what was going on was that he actually respected me and just assumed I wouldn’t be phased by any of that and that I was on his level…it was because I was at the “fake it” stage of “Fake it till you make it”, so OUTWARDLY I was projecting that I was on his level, but interally I wasn’t at all, so he was reacting to me like I was on that level and had no idea I was faking it and he was actually frustrating me lol
Again down the road you “make it” and now when I meet guys like that, they love me, because I can go back and forth with them and my frame is stronger and they respect me. And because I understand the dynamics of what’s going on, I actually don’t mind it and laugh about it sometimes and have fun with it, instead of being confused and annoyed that that’s how guys are.
“Is there something to his theory, or is Ted insan”e…or both?”
Ted is definitely insane, but you’d be surprised at the insights you can learn now and then from the insane lol :)
“I was planning on not going out, but there was an event at a club that 90% of the school social circle were attending. So…why not?”
Marriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance?
Holding On or Letting Go: When Addiction Tests a Marriage
The Marriage We Almost Lost: How Unemployment Changed Everything
Marriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting
He Seemed Interested. So Why Didn’t He Call?
Online Dating Isn’t Desperation
Changing Your Dating Approach
Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever
Dating Someone With Debt
Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby
The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment
How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray
- “one of the dudes at one point was like ‘this goddamned anchor baby beaner,’ and Ted throws his head back, ‘yeah, all right, gomer pyle, bob hope eat a dick whoever the fuck you are…’ and everyone laughed their asses off.”
lol this is how a lot of AMOG types interact. It’s basically shit-testing the other guy and seeing if he’s going to be a bitch and let it get to him, or if he’s going to laugh and throw it back in their face…then they end up best buds because they have a mutual respect for eachother.
It was really a bunch of mind-fuckery when I first started hanging out with other dudes and seeing this stuff first-hand. And I had the same reactions you probably did where you’re like “wtf?? This is insane, I don’t get what just happened at ALL…I don’t even WANT to get it, this is stupid to me”. But now I can handle myself the way Ted does and I understand a lot of this is just about respecting the other guy and earning his respect.
There was this one Natural dude in my first social circle who would alllways try to tool me and compete with me and challenge me to getting girls against him etc. etc. And I thought he was the biggest fucking asshole for the longest time lol Then one day I realized what was going on was that he actually respected me and just assumed I wouldn’t be phased by any of that and that I was on his level…it was because I was at the “fake it” stage of “Fake it till you make it”, so OUTWARDLY I was projecting that I was on his level, but interally I wasn’t at all, so he was reacting to me like I was on that level and had no idea I was faking it and he was actually frustrating me lol
Again down the road you “make it” and now when I meet guys like that, they love me, because I can go back and forth with them and my frame is stronger and they respect me. And because I understand the dynamics of what’s going on, I actually don’t mind it and laugh about it sometimes and have fun with it, instead of being confused and annoyed that that’s how guys are.
“Is there something to his theory, or is Ted insan”e…or both?”
Ted is definitely insane, but you’d be surprised at the insights you can learn now and then from the insane lol :)
“I was planning on not going out, but there was an event at a club that 90% of the school social circle were attending. So…why not?”
Type d'événement :
Réunion d'un Groupe de travail
Début de l'événement :
18.03.2022
Fin de l'événement :
27.03.2022